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A film about fate that keeps hiding its dates is basically destiny with a blindfold and a smug grin.
“When life happens, love is lost in the abyss of memories, if fate is against the happiness of being together with the only loved one.”
— Raz Mihal
Hermit Off Script
I watched it twice, partly because I wanted to see Moon Ga-young’s performance again, and partly because I wanted to pin down the year when the later timeline begins. Yes, I am that sentimental and that stubborn. Joking aside, it’s beautiful and sad at the same time, the kind of romance that leaves a bruise you keep pressing just to check it’s still real. It hit too close to home: failure, fate, the sense that things happen and you’re just lost in maktub – “it is written” – while life points the finger at your odds of ending up with the only person you actually wanted for the long run. And then there’s the bit that annoyed me: the obsession with grainy black and white for the past or the future, like misery needs a filter to be considered art. Maybe it’s meant to make the colourful parts feel more magical. Fine. But the timeline? I kept forgetting which year the film was pointing to in the future, not the past. Twice. I tried for the life of me, and still couldn’t properly assess the time difference. Just write the year on screen when you jump, at the start and end, job done. Colour coding would help too. I know some people love black-and-white melancholy. I just want clarity. And honestly, when I go back home, this is what I’ll miss most – not being able to see Korean films at the cinema anymore.
P.S. Content note: I had just watched another restrained Korean romance in a packed Seoul cinema, so yes, I noticed that this one includes more kissing, and the film’s “drunk-cute” bit does not come within touching distance of Jun Ji-hyun’s gold-standard version. Also, I tried to book this twice before the 31 December 2025 release and it was sold out every time; when I finally got a seat the screen was packed, and it was full again when I watched it for the second time on 2 January 2026. Korean cinema still sells its own films in theatres like it means it, while UK cinemas can barely fill seats even when the poster is basically a famous face and a marketing budget.
P.S. Update – 19 July 2026:
The film did more than fill the two screenings I attended. It passed its break-even point of 1.1 million admissions within 13 days and later reached 2,603,015 admissions. Moon Ga-young also won Best Actress at the 62nd Baeksang Arts Awards.
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Once We Were Us (2025) – Movie synopsis roast
“Once We Were Us” (man-yag-e u-ri) is a bittersweet time-hop romance where two people who were once each other’s whole world meet again years later and discover that memory can preserve love and still sharpen regret. In the present, everything is drained into grainy black-and-white, like the film is mourning its own happiness; in the past, it’s warmer and more alive, watching Koo Kyo-hwan (구교환) and Moon Ga-young (문가영) stumble from friendship into the kind of love that feels inevitable right up until real life turns up with receipts. He chases a big-dream future, she wants something steadier, and the story keeps cutting between “what we were” and “what we did to ourselves” until the reunion lands, and you realise the point is not time travel – it’s regret management.
Cast and credits
Director: Kim Do-young
Writers: Kim Do-young, Kim Ha-na
Genre: Romance, melodrama
Main cast: Koo Kyo-hwan (구교환), Moon Ga-young (문가영), Shin Jung-geun and Lee Sang-yeob
Music director: Kim Jang-woo, also credited as Jay Kim
Production company/studio: Covenant Pictures
Distributor: Showbox
Runtime: 114 minutes
Rating: 15
Release year and platform: Released theatrically in South Korea on 31 December 2025
What does not make sense
- If the story hinges on a reunion 10 years later, a brief date caption would not murder the poetry.
- Black-and-white separates the timelines emotionally, but it does not always make the exact chronology obvious.
- The film asks viewers to study visual texture while the characters are busy breaking their hearts.
- A mid-budget romance can pass 2.6 million admissions, yet the industry still behaves as though only spectacle draws people into cinemas.
- The film crossed its break-even point in 13 days, proving that emotional realism can sell tickets without levelling a city.
- Cinema complains about shrinking attention spans, then occasionally confuses clarity with artistic surrender.
Sense check / The numbers
- Once We Were Us was released on 31 December 2025, runs for 114 minutes, carries a Korean rating of 15 and played on 1,116 screens. [KOFIC]
- KOFIC records 2,603,015 admissions and USD17,121,676 in gross revenue as of 18 July 2026. [KOFIC]
- The film crossed its reported break-even point of 1.1 million admissions within 13 days. [KOFIC]
- By 27 February 2026, it had held number 1 at the Korean box office for 3 consecutive weeks and had been sold to 9 international territories. [KOFIC]
- Moon Ga-young won Best Actress for the film at the 62nd Baeksang Arts Awards in May 2026. [Korea JoongAng Daily]
The sketch
Scene 1: The Calendar of Doom
A cinema screen shows a romance scene, but the corner date stamp is censored with a sticky note.
Dialogue:
Viewer: “What year is this?”
Film: “Yes.”
Scene 2: Greyscale Priesthood
A director in a beret sprinkles grain like holy water over a black-and-white shot.
Dialogue:
Director: “Now it feels timeless.”
Viewer: “That is the problem.”
Scene 3: Maktub, Mate
A giant hand labelled “FATE” flips a coin onto two tiny characters holding hands.
Dialogue:
Character: “Do we get a happy ending?”
FATE: “It’s written. In pencil. Off-screen.”
What to watch, not the show
- Remake incentives: keep the famous structural trick (monochrome/time) because it’s recognisable, even if it costs clarity.
- Prestige signalling: grain and black-and-white as a shortcut for “serious cinema” rather than better storytelling.
- Audience endurance testing: romance plus time jumps plus minimal labels equals “if you miss one cue, you’re lost”.
- The theatre gap: films like this remind you why cinemas matter, right up until the film forgets basic legibility.
The Hermit take
Fate is difficult enough without the calendar joining the conspiracy.
Keep the greyscale, but give the heartbreak a date.
Keep or toss
Keep / Toss
Keep the ache, the performances, and the grown-up idea that love can be real even when it fails.
Toss the coy timeline games – label the years and let the heartbreak do the heavy lifting.
Sources
- YouTube trailer: https://youtu.be/ekG9oxWV6Rw?si=3WDJHFY2xHlsZTMC
- KOFIC official film database – runtime, release date, rating, screens, admissions, gross, director, cast, writers and music director: https://www.koreanfilm.or.kr/eng/films/index/filmsView.jsp?movieCd=20249255
- KOFIC report – 1.1 million break-even point reached in 13 days and 1.57 million admissions by 19 January 2026: https://www.koreanfilm.or.kr/eng/news/news.jsp?blbdComCd=601006&mode=VIEW&seq=6367
- KOFIC report – more than 2.5 million admissions, three weeks at number 1 and distribution to 9 international territories: https://www.koreanfilm.or.kr/eng/news/news.jsp?blbdComCd=601006&mode=VIEW&seq=6384
- Showbox official international film page: https://global.showbox.co.kr/forums/QA9URT74M/threads/T4FYKWK84
- Korea JoongAng Daily – 62nd Baeksang Arts Awards results, including Moon Ga-young’s Best Actress win: https://koreajoongangdaily.joins.com/news/2026-05-09/entertainment/movies/Here-are-all-the-winners-from-the-62nd-Baeksang-Awards/2588238
